To help prevent the spread of COVID-19, the Tuscola County Courthouse and Friend of the Court (FOC) office is closed to the public. However, FOC will continue to offer services during this time. You may reach us as follows:
Many parents are being asked by their child’s school to make a decision as to whether their child will be attending school this fall in-person, remotely, or opting for a hybrid approach. This can be a difficult choice for some parents. It becomes even more complicated when parents are not able to agree on which option to choose. In an effort to help families make this decision, the Tuscola Friend of the Court is providing the following FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions):
Question: My school is asking me if my child will return to school in-person this fall. Do I need to discuss this with the other parent or can I make the decision on my own?
Answer: It depends on what your court order says. If your court order says that you have sole legal custody, you can make the decision on your own. If your court order says that you have joint legal custody, you will need to discuss this with the other parent and make the decision together. If you don’t know whether you have joint legal or sole legal custody, you may contact the Friend of the Court at 989-672-3213 to help you determine what your court order says.
Question: Does the Friend of the Court offer any guidance to help parents make the decision whether a child should return to school in-person or attend remotely?
Answer: Yes. The Friend of the Court suggests that parents consider their own unique circumstances and those of the other parent. For instance, if either household has an immunocompromised person residing in the home, parents may understandably have concerns about sending their child to school. As such, it might be prudent to attend school remotely. Similarly, if a possible COVID exposure could cause a parent to miss work and suffer significant financial hardship, this might also be a consideration. Each family is different so the Friend of the Court encourages parents to work together to make the best decision for their child while considering each family’s individual circumstances.
Question: When parents cannot reach an agreement as to whether a child should return to school in-person, does the Friend of the Court provide services to help parents decide?
Answer: Yes. Parents are welcome to contact the Friend of the Court to ask for help in making this decision when they cannot resolve this issue on their own. The Friend of the Court is able to set up a joint meeting between a Friend of the Court facilitator and the parents to discuss their concerns. To use this process, both parents must be agreeable to participating. These meetings are referred to as Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) and will be held remotely. If parents are interested in using the ADR process, they may contact the Friend of the Court at 989-672-3212 for more information.
Question: What happens if our court order says that we have joint legal custody but we cannot reach an agreement on which option to choose?
Answer: If you and the other parent cannot agree on whether your child should return to in-person school, either party may file a motion to ask the court to make the decision for you. The court will base its decision on the child’s best interests. Given that the school year is fast approaching and the court’s docket gets booked quickly, the Friend of the Court highly suggests that parties first try to resolve the issue between themselves or seek ADR.
Question: The other parent has sole legal custody, but I don’t like the decision they are making. Can I still ask the court for help?
Answer: Yes. Under certain circumstances the court might change legal custody or otherwise override the other parent’s decision. Depending on the situation, this could be a difficult process so you may want to contact an attorney for assistance, visit www.MichiganLegalHelp.org or see if ADR is an option.
If you would like to make a support payment, please visit the Michigan State Disbursement Unit (MiSDU) at www.misdu.com.
You can access your case information, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, by signing up with MiChildSupport at www.michigan.gov/micase
If an emergency arises and one parent needs to directly give the other parent cash for child support, please ask the receiving parent to write a receipt that is both signed and dated. Receipts can be forwarded to the FOC so we can process an adjustment to the account balance.
If you lost your job and your income has significantly changed, please call FOC at 989-672-3217 or email us at firstname.lastname@example.org to start a child support review. Alternatively, if parents have reached an agreement regarding child support, please contact FOC for assistance in modifying your court order.
Except for emergency hearings, all FOC hearings scheduled through May 2020, are in the process of being adjourned to a later date. Look for a notice of adjournment in the mail that will provide information about your new hearing date. For access to a virtual hearing, please contact the court administrator at 989-672-3807.
Until the court resumes normal operations, FOC is waiving the requirement that orders are “approved as to form” prior to filing.
Given the rapidly evolving situation, please check the following resources to determine what services are available:
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There are several ways to contact the Friend of the Court
MiChild Support: micase.state.mi.us/micaseapp/public/home.html
Please note that as a result of COVID, all in person service is limited by appointment only and for services that cannot be performed by phone or online. Please contact Friend of the Court to identify the best available options to receive service.
Friend of the Court is located on the 1st floor of the Tuscola County Courthouse:
440 North State Street
Caro, Michigan 48723
Office Hours: Monday - Friday 8:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
The FOC Referee Division holds hearings on matters such as child support, custody, parenting time, and domicile. It is located on the 1st floor of the Tuscola County Court House (inside the Friend of the Court Office). Note, as a result of COVID, most hearings are being conducted remotely.
Enforcement Specialists are assigned to cases based on the father's last name. Contact your Enforcement Specialist if you have questions regarding show cause hearings, bench warrants, income withholding notices, employer related questions, locating individuals whose address is unknown or any other question related to enforcement.
If you have an interstate case and need information regarding the status of your case or have questions regarding medical enforcement contact the Interstate/MedicalSpecialist at the phone number listed below.
For questions about custody, parenting time, or how to file a parenting time complaint, contact our Parenting Dispute Specialist:
For questions about scheduling alternative dispute resolution (ADR), including facilitative information gathering (FIG) conferences or joint meetings, contact our ADR Coordinator:
If you have experienced a change in your financial circumstances and you would like to find out how to change your child support, contact one of our Modification Specialists:
If you have accounting, foster care, or general questions related to payments made and/or credits received, contact our Accounting Department:
Friend of the Court is responsible for enforcing court orders. A few things to keep in mind:
If you have an outstanding bench warrant, Friend of the Court will attempt to work with you to resolve this matter before you are arrested. Please contact the Friend of the Court at 989-673-4848 to discuss your options.
Michigan law requires that child support orders contain a provision requiring at least one parent to provide health insurance for their child(ren). If a party is ordered to provide health insurance, Friend of the Court will send a National Medical Support Notice (NMSN) to the party's employer. However, if the cost of providing coverage is more than 6% of the parent’s gross income, it might not be be considered a “reasonable” cost. If you believe that your employer's insurance is too expensive and therefore not reasonable, contact the Friend of the Court.
When one party incurs medical expenses that are not covered by insurance, they might be able to ask for a reimbursement from the other parent depending on what the court order says. Contact Friend of the Court at 989-673-4848 if you need help with reimbursement of medical expenses.
There are three ways to have a child support order reviewed for possible modification:
If you have questions regarding a support review, you may contact the Friend of the Court's Modification Specialists at 989-672-3217 or 989-672-3206
Friend of the Court assists parties in enforcing parenting time orders only through written request. If you have a court order for parenting time and the other party is not complying with the court's order, you may file a Parenting Time Complaint. Please remember that Friend of the Court can only enforce written court orders. Friend of the Court cannot enforce private agreements made by the parties.
Often times, modifying custody/parenting time orders can be a complicated issue because certain proofs must be made to the court before the court will modify a custody/parenting time order. You may wish to discuss this issue with an attorney to determine how best to proceed. Also, you may wish to review our "Useful Links" page for additional legal resources.
If parties have reached an agreement regarding a modification to their custody/parenting time order, they may enter into a consent agreement.
If parties have attempted to privately resolve their issues but are unable to do so, Friend of the Court may be able to help. Parties may contact Friend of the Court to set up a "joint meeting" with our parenting time coordinator. At this meeting, parties will be given an opportunity to discuss their respective issues in an attempt to reach an agreement. Friend of the Court will only schedule a joint meeting if BOTH parties are willing to attending.
If you have general questions about your custody/parenting time order, or you would like to schedule a joint meeting, please contact Friend of the Court's Parenting Time Coordinator atext. 3212.
For a copy of the Tuscola County Friend of the Court Parenting Time Guidelines please click here.
The Domestic Relations Referee assists the Family Division judge by holding hearings and issuing recommendations regarding child support, custody, parenting time and requests for changes of domicile.
The Tuscola County Domestic Relations Referee Division is located at:440 N. State Street
Phone Number: 989-673-4848 ext. 3200